I like pearls. It’s my favorite stone and I like to wear them when I feel like doing jewelry, real or custom.
My engagement ring is a made of pearl (I hate diamonds), I have pearl earrings of different shades and a variety of pearl necklaces to match them and not match the rest.
One day I wore pearls to work. That afternoon I had a meeting with one of my bosses and a colleague. I was explaining a new concept that I thought we should try when someone interrupted the meeting to chit chat with my boss. The conversation was short but ended with my boss saying “Hey, did you notice that XXXX has a pearl necklace?!?” He began to laugh loudly, glancing back at me. I’m not sure what’s funny so I just sit there slightly confused trying to run every memory I have that could explain the hilarity of this moment. The interrupter grins wide and deviously at my boss. I’m starting to get irritated because I’m made fun of for the way I was dressed and I don’t understand what’s so funny about my pearls.
The interrupter leaves and my boss laughs again, slightly quieter but looking intensely at me as if he wants me to be in on the joke. I begin to talk and he smiles and snickers again. The colleague in the room joins with a controlled laugh and I finally laugh as if I liked the joke so I can move on with what I was talking about. Seconds later I realized why it was so funny and what that devious grin meant. A “Pearl Necklace”, according to Sex and The City, is when a man cums all over a woman’s neck.
I don’t know why I laughed or didn’t say ‘go to hell’ like I should of but hindsight is always 20/20. The only thing I could think of was that I was embarrassed. I was angry and I felt stupid because I didn’t understand why they were laughing at me, and when I knew I just wanted it to go away because I was hurt.
I’m not a sex object. I don’t dress promiscuously and I don’t start these kinds of conversations at work. I am a professional.
My fault in this scenario was not remembering some obscure porn reference I saw on a show 10 years ago when I got dressed that morning.
That wasn’t the first time I wore a pearl necklace to work but it was the last.
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